#394 When His Mum Runs the Show: Monster Mother In-Law

In this episode, Niall is asking: Are some grandparents too involved—or are new parents just being ungrateful?

The topic stems from a heartfelt email sent in by a first-time mum who says her mother-in-law is turning her life upside down. From daily unannounced visits to constant criticism of her parenting, she feels like she’s being pushed aside in her own home. To make matters worse, her husband refuses to intervene, insisting his mother is "just trying to help."

The debate quickly ignites as listeners weigh in.

Some callers believe new parents are too sensitive these days. They argue that grandparents should be seen as a blessing, especially when they’re willing to help out. For them, the mother-in-law’s input is simply old-fashioned wisdom, not interference.

But others strongly disagree. They say boundaries are essential—especially when unsolicited advice turns into full-blown control. These callers argue that the mother-in-law is clearly overstepping and the husband needs to prioritise his wife and child over keeping mammy happy.

The episode reveals just how divisive family dynamics can be when parenting meets tradition, and why setting limits—especially with in-laws—isn't always so straightforward.