165. Group Project Dynamics: Type 3 Takes Over and Type 9 Checks Out - Why This Happens and What to Do

We’ve all been there—a group project where one person (possibly a Type 3) takes over like they’re leading a Fortune 500 company while another (let's say a Type 9) quietly disappears into the background.

So, why does this happen? And more importantly, how do we fix it?

In this episode of Enneagram at Work, we’re breaking down:

• Why Type 3s naturally take charge (and sometimes overdo it)
• Why Type 9s drift into the role of silent supporter (or fully check out)
• How this dynamic can lead to burnout for Type 3 & disengagement for Type 9
• Simple fixes to create balance, clear roles, and actual teamwork
• How to make sure Type 3 doesn’t ‘redo’ everyone’s work & Type 9 doesn’t fade into oblivion

If you’re a Type 3, this episode will help you lead without steamrolling. If you’re a Type 9, this will help you stay engaged without feeling overwhelmed. If you're neither but manage people, this will help you better understand and address challenging group project dynamics. 

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