FINDING FREEDOM IN FORGIVENESS (Ephesians 4:31-32)

FINDING FREEDOM IN FORGIVENESS (EPHESIANS 4:31-32)

The overall theme of Paul’s message to the believers at Ephesus is about the power that is found when the church is unified in purpose and love.  In the local church there is to be unity, but most of all in the body of Christ, the body of true believers, there is great power and comfort in unity.  Both for the overall body, and the individual believer.  

There are two problems that do great psychological, emotional, and spiritual damage to anyone, and perhaps to you.  One is guilt, and the other is bitterness. Guilt imprisons us; bitterness poisons us. Forgiveness is the answer both to bitterness and to guilt. Guilt is the result of something we have done wrong. Bitterness is our reaction to someone else’s wrong, or our perception that someone else has wronged us. They both have us in a prison, and it is forgiveness—hallelujah—that sets the prisoner free from guilt, or from bitterness. God’s forgiveness of us sets us free from the prison of guilt, and our forgiveness of others sets us free from the prison of bitterness. 

In the message today, Paul is telling us that when you forgive someone, truly forgive them from your heart, you set two people free.  One, the person that you have forgiven, and the other is yourself.  Now, “to forgive” actually means “to pay a debt.”  You see, there are no bargain pardons. That is the reason our Lord taught us to pray in the Model Prayer: “And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.” (Matthew 6:12) Sin is a debt that we owe. We have sinned against heaven, against the kingdom. We have been sued for damages, and it is a debt that we cannot pay. But God, in mercy and in love, has forgiven us and paid that debt. You see, there are no free pardons. When somebody is forgiven, somebody else has paid.

For example, if someone owes me a thousand dollars, and that person says, “Keith, I can’t pay,” and I say, “All right, I forgive you,” the moment I say that, it cost me what? A thousand dollars. You see, to forgive is to actually pay the debt. The word “forgive” comes from a root word that literally means “to bear the burden.”

Now, if that is true, and it is, then let me ask, when our Lord forgives us, does He pay a price? Paul says that the answer to that question is, yes, the Lord does pay a price when He forgives us.  Out of the riches of His grace, He paid the debt Himself and, therefore, cancelled that debt. That is the reason we call salvation “grace”—G-R-A-C-E: “God’s Riches At Christ’s Expense.”

Click on the play button to hear a message on the freedom that we can find in forgiveness.

This is a live recording of The Master’s Class Bible Study at LifeChange Church Wichita, KS.

Amen.