From Shattered to Shining (Holiday Edition)
How to Rebuild Hope, Identity & Sparkle After Betrayal
There’s a moment after betrayal when you look in the mirror and don’t recognize yourself anymore. Not because you’re weak — but because you’ve been trying so hard to survive, hold everything together, and make sense of a world that suddenly stopped making sense.
If your sparkle feels dulled… If you feel like the woman you once were is gone… This episode will remind you: She’s still i...
From Shattered to Shining (Holiday Edition)
How to Rebuild Hope, Identity & Sparkle After Betrayal
There’s a moment after betrayal when you look in the mirror and don’t recognize yourself anymore. Not because you’re weak — but because you’ve been trying so hard to survive, hold everything together, and make sense of a world that suddenly stopped making sense.
If your sparkle feels dulled… If you feel like the woman you once were is gone… This episode will remind you: She’s still in there. And hope is still in there too.
---In this powerful episode, Lora takes you deep into what really breaks during betrayal — hope, identity, safety, and the sense of who you are. Last week’s show revealed that hope doesn’t die; hope hides. This week, you’ll learn how to begin revealing yourself again — layer by layer — so your hope can return and your sparkle can rise.
Lora shares how the FLAUNT!® framework was “downloaded” years before her own betrayal, how it became the blueprint that saved her life, and how you can use these same steps to move from shattered to shining this holiday season.
You’ll also hear the full story behind the free December 1st From Shattered to Shining Book Club & Workshop — a guided, experiential celebration of healing, revealing, and reclaiming your joy.
This is the episode to listen to if you feel lost, dulled, destabilized, or disconnected — especially heading into the holidays.
TOP 3 TAKEAWAYS
- Your sparkle isn’t gone — it’s covered.
Betrayal doesn’t “break” you. It buries you under grief, shock, and roles you never meant to carry. Healing is not fixing — it’s revealing.
- Hope hides beneath layers — but it’s never lost.
Hope disappears under masks, roles, labels, and survival patterns. When you begin to unmask yourself, hope becomes possible again.
- FLAUNT!® is a clinically-backed framework for betrayal recovery.
Originally built for empowerment, it became the missing map for navigating infidelity: F – Find Your Fetish (joy) L – Laugh Out Loud (regulate your nervous system) A – Accept Unconditionally (what is true) N – Navigate the Negative (integrate, don’t avoid) T – Trust in Your Truth (stand in who you are becoming)
Rebuild your identity, your hope, and your sparkle with Lora’s free two-hour virtual workshop:
From Shattered to Shining: A Book Club Experience for Women Who Are Ready to Feel Like Themselves Again
December 1,
11 am – 1 pm PST, 12 pm – 2 pm MST, 1 pm – 3 pm CST, 2 pm – 4 pm EST, 7 pm – 9 pm GMT, 8 pm – 10 pm CET, 6 am – 8 am AEDT (next day) Free on Zoom (+ replay) Bring your copy of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self Register at www.TheFlauntBook.com
If you want clarity, grounding, and joy this holiday season — this workshop is your next step.
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FAVORITE QUOTE
“You are not broken. Your sparkle has just been dulled — and together, we’re going to bring it back to life.” — Lora Cheadle
Free FLAUNT! Holiday Reset & Book Club
If this episode hit home, your next step is simple:
Join Lora on December 1st for a free live FLAUNT! Book Club & Workshop — a Holiday Reset designed to move you from performance to presence in real time.
You’ll:
- Work with practices from FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy & Spiritual Self
- Get tools to break your performance scripts and over-functioning habits
- Have space to decompress after Thanksgiving and prepare for the rest of the season in a different way
- Practice embodying presence so you can actually feel the joy you’re creating
Sign up free: TheFlauntBook.com
You don’t need to be “caught up” or have read the whole book. Just bring yourself, your copy, and a willingness to show up as you are.
LOVE THE SHOW? TAKE THE NEXT STEP
Don’t just listen—start healing.
Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com. https://workplace-burnout.com/the-top-3-ways-you-betray-yourself-every-day-and-how-to-stop/
If you’re ready to Rise Up & Reign as the creator and queen of your life, let’s talk. I will walk by your side and give you the perspective, permission, and wisdom needed to turn your betrayal experience into something constructive, empowering, and transformative in all the right ways.
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Download your Sparkle After Betrayal Recovery Guide at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com, a guide designed to help you take the first steps in feeling better, so you can reclaim your power, own your worth, and start putting yourself, and your life, back together again.
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle, JD, CHt is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, TEDx speaker, and author of FLAUNT! and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal.
After uncovering her husband’s 15-year affair, she turned her own pain into purpose—helping high-achieving women reclaim their identity, power, and joy.
A trauma-aware coach, somatic therapist, and former attorney, Lora blends legal insight with emotional and spiritual healing for full-spectrum recovery.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal. Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Get the support you need to find your footing, begin making sense of it all, and feel better fast. As an attorney, betrayal recovery expert, and survivor of infidelity I can help you find the clarity and confidence to create a life that you love on the other side of betrayal. Book Your Session Here: https://calendly.com/loras-schedule/coaching-session
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