Homily for Friday of the 23rd Week in Ordinary time

Today's Gospel passage warns us about the dangers of hypocrisy and self-deception, particularly when it comes to judging others. We are called to engage in honest self-reflection and address our own faults first (the "wooden beam") before attempting to correct the minor faults (the "splinter") of others. This invitation to self-examination is presented as a necessary step for spiritual maturity and practical guidance, as faithful disciples will eventually become like their teacher, Christ, when they allow His grace to heal their spiritual blindness.

Therefore, we should take the time to examine our own faults. Instead of being quick to judge the actions or words of others, we should ask ourselves if we are overlooking similar, or even worse, flaws in our own lives.

Our focus should be on growing in virtue and striving to become more like Jesus by allowing Him to heal our own spiritual "wooden beams." This personal growth will enable us to be more effective and authentic guides for others.

Additionally, we should practice true discernment. When we are ready to help someone else, we will be able to see the splinter clearly and assist our brother or sister in removing it with love and clarity, rather than with judgment.