S2, Ep. 16: Tools, Cups & Utensils

Parents often ask us: What tools do I need to help my child eat? From vibrating toys to chewy tubes, special spoons to miracle cups, the pressure to “pick the right thing” during tube weaning can be overwhelming. But the truth is, responsive tube weaning isn’t about finding the perfect tool, it’s about understanding and supporting your unique child. 

In this episode of Tube to Table, we unpack the role of tools, cups, and utensils in the weaning process. We’ll talk about: 

• Why tools are often recommended in feeding therapy and why we rarely use them 

• The myth of “sensory tolerance” and what’s actually happening when kids seem sensitive 

• Why oral motor tools don’t mimic how food behaves, and how that impacts learning 

• What it means to honor a child’s identity to support true felt safety 

• How to approach cups and utensils in a way that builds autonomy and agency 

We’ll also share when tools can be useful and how to know if your child is inviting them in, rather than just tolerating them. 

This conversation is a reminder that your child is the best guide. Most of the time, the tools you need are already at home and the real work is in creating a safe, responsive environment where your child can explore, lead, and learn to eat on their own terms. 

** Please remember this podcast is NOT meant to replace the support and guidance of your child's medical team.  Consult with your doctor before starting the weaning process.** 

 

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