Question: Are You Giving as Much as You’re Taking?

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On this show… we’re flipping the script and asking, are you giving as much as you’re taking? Have you ever felt like life just isn’t fair? Like you’re stuck playing the hand you were dealt while others seem to coast through with a royal flush? Maybe you’ve caught yourself thinking, “Why do they get all the breaks?” or “When is it my turn?” It’s easy to feel that way when we’re hyper-aware of what we’re not getting, but how often do we pause to consider what we’re giving?

Sometimes, entitlement sneaks in wearing the mask of fairness. We may believe we’re owed something: more time, more praise, more help, because we’ve been working hard, showing up, or just surviving. But here’s the deeper question: are we creating the kind of balance we’re craving, or are we tipping the scales with our expectations? This episode isn’t about guilt-tripping or grinding it out harder. It’s about awareness. About getting curious, not critical, and asking, “Am I contributing to the harmony I want to experience in my life and relationships?” Let’s explore what it really means to give as much as you take… and why that shift in focus might be the key to unlocking more purpose, joy, and momentum.

And here’s another angle we’ll explore: how feeling stuck or shortchanged can morph into bitterness and blame if we aren’t careful. That mindset can convince us we’re powerless, resigned to our circumstances, when really, we have far more influence than we think. What happens when we trade frustration for curiosity? When we stop asking “Why not me?” and start asking “What can I do?” That’s where things start to shift.

The B-side asks: “What if your version of 'giving' is actually masking a fear of being seen as selfish?”

Here’s the twist: the most generous people are often the ones who’ve learned to give from a full place—not a place of obligation, fear, or performance. 

CHALLENGE: Take an honest inventory of your energetic exchange with the world. Where are you contributing, and where are you simply consuming? Identify one area this week where you can shift from expectation to contribution — whether it’s your time, your presence, your encouragement, or your effort. Give without waiting to feel ready, and see what shifts within you as a result.

I Know YOU Can Do It!

 

🎶 Music that Moves the Message

All original music featured in this episode—including the Encouragementology intro, outro, and interludes—was written and performed by Matt Martino. His work brings warmth and emotion to every episode.

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