Jen's Perspective on Solving Domestic Violence for Good with Jennifer Hotai
Jennifer Hotai’s Powerful Escape from a Decade of Sadistic Abuse and Her Fight to End Domestic Violence
Jennifer Hotai shares her experience enduring a decade of brutal, sadistic abuse and how she found the strength to escape and heal. She offers critical insights on domestic violence as a societal issue and provides resources and practical steps to help others break free and recover.
What you’ll learn
Learn how marriage can ...
Jen's Perspective on Solving Domestic Violence for Good with Jennifer Hotai
Jennifer Hotai’s Powerful Escape from a Decade of Sadistic Abuse and Her Fight to End Domestic Violence
Jennifer Hotai shares her experience enduring a decade of brutal, sadistic abuse and how she found the strength to escape and heal. She offers critical insights on domestic violence as a societal issue and provides resources and practical steps to help others break free and recover.
What you’ll learn
Learn how marriage can be manipulated as a tool of control in abuse.
Understand the devastating effects of prolonged sleep deprivation as abuse.
Discover essential steps and resources for safely escaping abuse.
Chapters and content
00:00:00 Introduction
00:01:48 Jennifer shares her background and the 10-year violent abusive relationship she endured
00:03:30 Explanation of sadistic abuse with details on sleep deprivation as torture tactic
00:06:00 Effects of prolonged torture on mind and body during the abuse
00:08:45 The twisted use of marriage to gain control and ownership in the relationship
00:10:15 Reflection on the distorted perception of love within abusive relationships
00:11:45 Jennifer recounts her multiple attempts to leave
00:12:45 The intense fear and inner instinct leading to her final escape on April 20, 2022
00:13:50 Details on the police response and securing protection after escape
00:15:10 Updates on the abuser’s self-destructive behaviors and eventual death
00:17:15 Importance of protective orders and staying safe post-escape
00:17:55 Overview of the book 'Alive and Angry' and its comprehensive approach to domestic violence
00:18:40 How to connect with Jennifer and obtain the book with global resources included
Jennifer's bio
A lifelong artist. Tech enthusiast. Creative leader. Domestic violence survivor. Jennifer Hotai has experienced and endured many challenges through her creative career and personal struggles. She worked on game and film projects as a concept artist while working dead-end jobs, before creating an advertising company in 2015. She created the creative company called Plover Animation in 2022 while escaping a life-threatening abusive relationship. She is now embarking on new opportunities, offering her leadership skills in the tech and other industries. She drew strength from being a survivor to make a positive impact with nonprofit work. She has spearheaded tech education for the Myrtle Beach area by hosting workshops and speaking events. She also is a board member of the nonprofit Armor Up Sister. This organization aims to solve the problem of the absence of necessary legal & financial assistance and self-care services for domestic violence victims in South Carolina. As an ambassador and speaker in tech, she has presented and appeared at various conferences. She is featured in the 1st and 2nd editions of the book 'Women of the Future' as a Top 100 Women of the Future. In her free time, she enjoys playing the piano, binging sci-fi TV shows, and playing video games. She also rescued and trained a pit bull named Lily in 2023, who is her Psychiatric Service Dog. They enjoy going on adventures, snuggling at home, and providing positive support to people they meet along the way. It’s the best relationship Jennifer has been in, and everyone tells her that Lily’s a very good girl! Jennifer is dedicated to raising awareness about domestic violence and inspiring societal change to reduce its prevalence.
Connect with Jennifer Hotai
On LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenniferhotai/
On Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/JenniferHotai
Buy her book on Amazon, Alive and Angry: https://a.co/d/7QN5f5y
Check out the website of her perspective on solving domestic violence: https://aliveandangry.com/
Check out her website where she provides creative digital design and so much more: https://ploveranimation.com/
About the host and the podcast
Learn more about and connect with Gemma Serenity Gorokhoff, the host of Real Talk Real Women Breaking the Silence Around Abuse
https://gemmaserenity.com
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