10- Matthew Sedano

2025-03-06

Matthew is a senior in high school. He played volleyball, went to parties starting Sophomore year, and made good friends. Short Description- Parties, Friendships, Emotional Journeys. We talk about party culture and the feeling of freedom parties can sometimes offer. We talk about exclusivity in private school parties versus public school gatherings. Then we pivot to address topics like self-consciousness, the feeling of being left out, and the different perceptions others have of us. Matthew opens up about his struggles with volleyball, detailing how a...

Matthew is a senior in high school. He played volleyball, went to parties starting Sophomore year, and made good friends.

Short Description- Parties, Friendships, Emotional Journeys.

We talk about party culture and the feeling of freedom parties can sometimes offer. We talk about exclusivity in private school parties versus public school gatherings. Then we pivot to address topics like self-consciousness, the feeling of being left out, and the different perceptions others have of us. Matthew opens up about his struggles with volleyball, detailing how a coach's belittling comments led to burnout and a shift in his career aspirations. We also discuss crying and how he copes. We talk about different types of friendship and Matthew explains forcing versus letting friendships develop.

Chapter Markers and Podbean Link:

00:00 Starting the Podcast

00:33 Introducing the Guest: Matthew Sedano

01:31 Party Culture: Experiences and Opinions

05:18 Popularity and Social Dynamics

07:41 Personal Struggles and Emotional Growth

16:44 Volleyball Dreams and Disappointments

22:13 Coping with Emotions: Crying

37:46 Introversion vs. Extroversion: Perceptions

40:39 The Nature of Arguments in Friendships

47:26 Middle School Memories and Regrets

51:40 The Evolution of Friendships