As we say on just about all of our shows, one of the main reasons we started this podcast was to help curious, nervous newbies navigate their way into the wild, sexy, but daunting world of swinging, because we remember what it was like to be new, intimidated and very scared.
In this episode, we look back at our original fears and apprehensions about the lifestyle and we explore the question; if we could go back and talk to the frightened, timid, vanilla couple that we were when we stumbled into Desire several years ago, what advice would we give ourselves? With that prompt, we offer the top 5 things that we, and all newbies, should, but probably don't know about swingers and the lifestyle.
Our diary story is about an encounter with a newbie couple that actually pursued us in order to take their first steps into their own swinging adventure and the way, as ambassadors for the lifestyle, we both let them down and gave them an amazing experience to remember.
SD 74 How do you flirt with a threesome on your favorite online dating site?
SD 73 How do you make the transition to playtime with a couple who are your kids' ages?
SD 72 Does it turn you on to flirt with a single guy in a vanilla bar?
SD 71 How often does she use the veto power when she's not attracted to the other man?
SD 70 In a group of people that aren't physically your preference, how do you play defense?
SD 69 Do you fear single men who's names you don't know?
SD 68 If the newbie couple you met online doesn’t use condoms, does that add to your performance pressure?
SD 67 Do the stories of liars, flakes and catfishing experiences drive people out of the lifestyle?
SD 66 As experienced swingers, is it a good idea to share a room with newbies?
SD 65 Now that you're more experienced, do you prefer to play on one bed or two?
SD 64 If she takes one for the team and plays with a straight woman, can he take pics?
SD 63 Have you ever spotted an openminded single friend and thought of flipping her to the lifestyle?
SD 62 How often does play with a fantastic kisser end up in a huge mess?
SD 61 In the modern swinging lifestyle, does it make you jealous when playmates send flowers?
SD 60 Are you on the hunt for the position that will insure your orgasm?
SD 59 Sure he’s a 10, but if you have an MFM will you blow him without a condom?
SD 58 If you find a couple with a hot guy, how do you approach them and suggest full swap?
SD 57 How often does your foursome discuss the potential of pregnancy?
SD 56 As a repressed risk-taker, do you always use condoms at Desire or Hedo?
SD 55 What’s a unicorn’s secret for handling men’s performance issues?
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