#20 The Blame Game

Join Shana and Melissa for a deep dive into the topics of blame and accountability. These are incredibly important factors in the health of relationships, and how we choose to handle them can really determine the longevity of them. They discuss the differences between blame and accountability; why blame feels so enticing to most of us; and how to create some new patterns that allow us to return to growth, love, and connection. You won't want to miss this insightful episode. Let's dive in!

 

Resources:

Reddit Question and Answer:

“What often destroys relationships, but isn’t talked about much?"

“Blame. The single best predictor of relationship failure is the frequency of blaming language. Blame is absolutely poisonous to relationships. Approach problems from a problem-solving mindset, not a blame assigning one, if you want your relationship to last.”

 

Host: Shana Dubay

Guest: Melissa Small

Music: ROA

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