Peeling Back the Layers: Authentic Connections in a Tech-Driven World

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On this show….we are peeling back the layers to build more authentic connections amid this tech-driven world. Got a lot of “friends” but still feel lonely? Receiving a lot of “likes” and “loves” but still feeling unheard? Take a minute and count your authentic connections. You know the ones who have your back and you have theirs. You call them and they show up to celebrate or get you back on your feet. They are priceless and they didn’t happen by accident. In today’s tech-heavy world, it’s easy to feel like we’re buried under layers of screens and gadgets, which can make real, authentic connections seem out of reach. But here’s the good news: peeling back those layers isn’t as hard as it sounds! Let’s dive into how to cut through the digital noise and build genuine relationships that enrich our lives. 

Having a tight inner circle is critical and yes, exclusive. I have friends who have been with me through thick and thin. They have loved me even through the unlovable stages of my life. And let me tell you, there were many. They are gold and unshakable. I hope I’m half the friend to them as they are to me. 

Woodrow Wilson said, “Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together." If that’s true, shouldn’t we take it super seriously? That means effort, being strategic, and adopting a give/get approach. 

At Your Life Your Voice I found a breakdown of the different circles of friendship.

At TedEd’s YouTube channel, I found some good information on How friendship affects your brain - Shannon Odell

At Friendship with Intention, Amanda Diaz shares THE 5 LOVE LANGUAGES FOR FRIENDSHIP

Don’t beat yourself up and don’t let yourself get overwhelmed. Set realistic expectations and stop overcommitting. You can only do what you can do but you can do better.

Here are five actionable steps you can take today to become a better friend:

1. Reach Out Thoughtfully: Take a moment to check in with a friend. A simple message, call, or even a handwritten note to express that you’re thinking of them can make a big difference. Ask how they’re doing and show genuine interest in their life.
2. Offer Support: Be proactive in offering help or support. Whether it’s lending a listening ear, helping with a task, or providing encouragement, showing that you’re there for your friends in times of need strengthens your bond.
3. Show Appreciation: Let your friends know how much you value them. Compliment them, express gratitude for their presence in your life, or acknowledge their positive impact on you. Small acts of appreciation can go a long way.
4. Be Present: Focus on being fully present when you spend time together. Put away distractions like your phone and engage in meaningful conversations. Quality time spent together deepens the connection.
5. Practice Empathy: Try to understand things from your friend’s perspective. Listen actively and offer empathy and understanding, especially when they’re going through challenging times. Validating their feelings and experiences builds trust and strengthens the friendship.

CHALLENGE: Take a proactive step to strengthen your friendships by reaching out, offering support, and being fully present. Challenge yourself to show genuine appreciation and empathy, and watch how these small actions can lead to deeper, more meaningful connections.

 

I Know YOU Can Do It!