096 | Confidence Isn't About Being Loud – The Secret to Leading with Boldness

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Let's define confidence

confidence ≠ being loud or extroverted.

It's trust in one’s abilities and God-given purpose.

A perfect example of this is ESTHER. 

 

Leading with Boldness

• Bold leadership comes from aligning with God’s will, not from trying to be someone you’re not.
• Stop trying to please others, only aim to please GOD.
• Practical strategies:
  • Listening more than speaking.
  • Leaning into strengths instead of comparing weaknesses.
  • Seeking wisdom and courage through prayer and scripture.

 

Overcoming Self-Doubt

• Explore root causes of self-doubt (comparison, fear of failure, perfectionism).
• Strategies to combat self-doubt:
  • Daily affirmations grounded in scripture (e.g., "I can do all things through Christ").
  • Remembering past wins as evidence of God’s faithfulness.
  • Surrounding yourself with supportive and honest accountability partners.
  • Remember making mistakes is okay!

Confidence grows with practice and trust in God.

 

Your Challenge:  take one bold step this week (e.g., speak up in a meeting, pray aloud in a group).

 

Joshua 1:9

"Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.”

 

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