Uncovering the Hidden Layers of Your Fertility Journey: Radical Responsibility, Intuition & Trust
Welcome back, conscious mamas-to-be! In this week’s Finding Fertility podcast, I take you behind the scenes of what it really takes to navigate your fertility journey with radical responsibility, trust, and deep surrender.
"Your body is time-based, your spirit is timeless. If you don’t integrate healing into the body, it doesn’t stick."
- The Addiction to Busyness: How high-achieving women tie self-worth to staying busy and the impact on fertility.
- Deep Surrender & Letting Go: Why releasing control is the hardest yet most powerful step in the fertility journey.
- Patterns & Quantum Psychology: The role of pattern recognition in identifying emotional and subconscious blocks.
- Inner Work vs. External Fixes: How true transformation comes from within, not just more information.
- The Feminine Wound & Burnout: Why so many women are exhausted and how embracing feminine energy is the key.
- Energy Medicine & Quantum Healing: Bridging psychology, spirituality, and energy work to heal from the inside out.
- Spiritual Detours & Avoidance: The danger of chasing external validation through plant medicine, psychedelics, and endless courses.
- The Power of Integration: Why embodying healing is more important than constantly seeking the next thing.
- Surrendering to True Leadership: The deep desire for strong, grounded masculine energy and why many women struggle with it.
"If you actually tune into the energy of the universe, you’ll see that guiding a soul is the highest level mastery position you could have as a woman."
Hello, Beautiful - Monica here to shake things up, ruffle some feathers, and most importantly, get you to stop overthinking yourself into infertility hell. This episode? It’s personal. I’m talking about the addiction to busyness—something I know way too well. I built my entire business off of it, and guess what? It wasn’t sustainable.
We’re diving into patterns, surrender, and why you might be subconsciously blocking your own success—not just in fertility but in life. And because I’m all about keeping it real, I’m not just talking theory here. I’m sharing my own struggles of letting go, especially when life threw me into deep surrender with my father’s passing. (Spoiler: The universe doesn’t let you fake it.)
But wait, it gets juicier. I’m also bringing you part one of an epic conversation with my mentor, Talie Miller. This woman reads patterns for a living, and trust me, she has a gift. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing ALL the things but still stuck, this episode is a must-listen.
We also tackle the wild world of quantum psychology, energy medicine, and why some of the most popular self-development spaces are basically cults (yep, I said it). And for my Type-A ladies who are trying to “fix” themselves into pregnancy? Oof. You might not love hearing this, but you cannot logic your way into surrender.
So buckle up, because we’re talking intuition, feminine energy, the illusion of control, and why women secretly want strong masculine leadership (but won’t admit it). Oh, and I’ll probably get canceled for saying some of this, but Monique and I are fine with that.
"You can clear your energy all you want, but until your body understands the assignment, nothing changes."
Connect with Talie Miller:
https://taliemiller.com/
https://www.instagram.com/taliemiller
https://substack.com/@taliemiller
Is this all there is?: Awaken to a Deeper Life off of Amazon: https://amzn.to/4hty8ja
Timestamps
00:00 – Welcome & Why This Episode Almost Didn’t Happen
01:20 – The Addiction to Busyness & How It’s Shown Up in My Own Life
03:06 – Introducing My Mentor, Tali Miller & Why I Love Her Work
04:59 – Why Type-A Women Struggle With Surrender & Stillness
07:25 – What Quantum Psychology Really Is & Why It Matters
12:30 – The Dangers of Spiritual Detours (and Yes, Plant Medicine Too)
17:01 – Emotional Neglect & Why It’s Harder to Heal Than Big Trauma
20:23 – The Role of the Body in Healing & Why It’s Ignored
26:10 – The Importance of Staying in Your Body for True Healing
32:16 – Feminine Energy, Masculine Leadership & Why We’re Burnt Out
36:38 – Motherhood as a Sacred Calling vs. A Box to Check Off
38:05 – Wrapping Up: Next Week’s Episode & Why You Need to Be There
"Your body is time-based, your spirit is timeless. If you don’t integrate healing into the body, it doesn’t stick."
Full Transcript Over on the Blog: https://www.findingfertility.co/blog/is-your-infertility-ivf-journey-just-another-way-you-re-feeding-your-addiction-to-busyness-with-talie-miller
Let's Do This Together 💚
Monica
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Anything written or said about health and diet are my opinions, that I have formed over the years, through trial and error, study, reading, listening and observing. What worked for me, may not work for you. I am not a doctor, nutritionist or dietician and all medical advice should be gotten from a qualified professional. Product recommendations are based on what I used during my infertility journey or wish I had.
