I can understand why he was harsh bc she basically emotionally manipulated him into going. He has choices too. Her choice was to go

Sorry, clear he didn’t want to go. Why should he be forced to go to a funeral bc of her anxiety?

I am taking the dude’s side here and let me explain why: She made plans to go to an event the intimate, a funeral. She asked if he wanted to go e gave her a HARD NO. Then she asked him to just ”drive” her -- why? Does she not have a license? Then when they get there she tells him oh, please just come in with me, just for a minute until I calm down etc .. it seems like SHE was manipulating HIM time, even though he was CLE A R he did not w Ant to go... It

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