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this is just what i neededto hear today. 80/20 split

1 years ago reply 0

I have blamed my husband for his anger for so long. I had never interpreted it as frustration and rebellion. Thank you.

2 years ago reply 0

With all the love and respect in the world, 7 minutes in and you've lost me. I was very interested but too slow.

3 years ago reply 0

Wow thank you for this. I’m a new listener and out of all the episodes I could have listened to God lead me to this one. I can’t begin to tell you how relevant this topic is in my life right now. You hit it right on the nail. I’ve been praying for my husband to change and you have opened eyes and made me realize that I’m the one that needed the change of heart! I have repented and asked forgiveness from God and my husband and things are already improving!

3 years ago reply 0

It Goes Both Ways. I Just Started Listening. I Needed To Hear This. Thank You.

4 years ago reply 0

Thank you so much for this podcast. It really blessed me!

5 years ago reply 0

your podcast is great. Thank you for sharing your knowledge.

5 years ago reply 0

Scott Peck in his book, "People of the Lie," was on the forefront of trying to scientifically describe the character you discuss here. Peck finally (reluctantly) settles on what Jesus already comfortably spoke of over a thousand years ago: Evil people. He later concludes the underlying mental illness is Malignant Narcissism.

5 years ago reply 0

So much for a wife here. It helps me understand how my husband feels too.

5 years ago reply 0

You're right about women and the actual act of sex. I have already began teaching my 7 yr old son this truth--a woman must feel tenderly listened to, understood, etc to engage in genuine loving intimacy. The current massive problem is this: Pornography, media, et. al. teach boys and men that SOME women can be just like men in wanting loveless wild sex AND these women, BTW, have orgasm after orgasm during sex. I mean, some women are just that sex crazy, okay? 😔 This is when I have to fold. I'm trying to mother 2 children, one with a mild disability whom advocating for him is a 70 hr/week job in Its self. I work 50 hrs a week in my paid job. I conform to the standard sexist "wife maid" rules where I do 70% of the household responsibilities. What's next?! Well, I try to keep up with regular oral sex after I shop for and return and shop again for the lingerie my husband enjoys this year. *sigh*. My husband disclosed that his perfect sex life would be intercourse or oral sex every other day. But wait! I need to top it all with somehow having two orgasms per sex session. Thus, lingerie, nimphomania and gobs of orgasms. I couldn't do all this if someone offered me 1 million bucks. I cannot orgasm that often-- 1-2 timrs/week on good weeks. That's what porn portrays and every modern pop or hip-hop female artist. Heck! Many women selling shampoo 29opn tv are sex crazed as well--in t3õhe2q shower! Oohh no! Another pazed in the shower with lingerie on and multiple orgasms? I quit! (#1) I started faking orgasms with my husband forw the 1st time in 8 years after he recently disclosed to me that he loves me orgasming more than once. I'm either going to fake the orgasms or live in lingerie in the shower. Shower. SOLD!!! If the kids can be locked out of the bathroom I'll be gone for several days. If u need me. I'll be living in lingerie, locationding in the bath room ëh

6 years ago reply 1

Love & Respect has changed my life!!!

6 years ago reply 0

I just scrolled ahead to see if y'all were still doing podcast... so disappointed that you're not. I understand your lives are busy, but I so enjoy them. What ever will I do? In Christ , KC

6 years ago reply 0

Hurt so bad, it was indescribable. He left and stayed with our daughter. Then after a week moved all of his clothes out and got an efficiency close to his job. He said he wasn't going to divorce me so I could keep his insurance, due to my poor health. Gee, thanks. It's been 10 months and 4 days. After reading your book Love & Respect, I rededicated my life to God, and became determined to make my marriage work. I've shared this with my husband, he still won't talk about trying to work on our marriage. He denies ever sleeping with the other woman ( or anyone else), but even though I've begged him to come home, he hasn't. If he doesn't come back, do I just wait? How long? If he doesn't divorce me, does that keep me bound to marriage? Romans 7:23. Or at some point am I ever free? I Corinthians 7:15.? I loved your book. I am doing the workbook now and binge listening to all the podcast! I only started this 3 weeks ago. I feel like God wants me to stay ... but I'm 55 and it sure gets lonely. Your Sister in Christ, KC Osmialowski kcneel.oz@ gmail.com

6 years ago reply 0

Dear Emerson & Jonathan, my question is about a believer and non-stop believer who have been married for 28 yrs. I had a T. I. A. In 2012, had to stop working as a trauma rn, I became very depressed. Then I lost my father in 2014 and totally shut down. I have an old back injury that causes me a lot of pain so my activity is limited. My husband has never been good at expressing emotions or being able to talk about what is bothering him. Over the last 3 years our marriage began to suffer. He stopped being affectionate and I started accusing him of cheating on me. I caught him texting another woman ( someone he works with). Needless to say, I was

6 years ago reply 0

Great message ! My husband left me 10 months ago. Last weekend I picked up your book " Love and Respect ". God showed me how sinful I had been the last 3 years, not respecting my sweet and gentle man. I've redeicatrd my life to avoid. With God's help and what I'm learning from y'all, U'll show my husband a different picture of the woman he married. Please keep me in your prayers. KC

7 years ago reply 0

Just when I caught up with all your podcasts you stop??? Bummer. But seriously, thank you and good luck with your sabbatical. God bless you both. This podcast has been a huge blessing and I haven't stopped telling as many people I can about it. Thank you.

7 years ago reply 0

Awesome, since I just subscribed. Smh

7 years ago reply 0

Hello my name is Marisol I am Puertorican I live in Pennsylvania and I love your program God bless you and I thank God for you guys.

7 years ago reply 0

Suffering... Is it an unexplained privilege or a cruel curse? Let your faith perspective determine your feelings. Do not let your feelings determine their faith perspective.

7 years ago reply 0

In the midst of our own marital troubles, it seemed like my wife was always saying, "I did tell you that!" when I KNOW that she didn't. I was lying to her as well, but I always found a rationale for criticising her lies and not mine.

7 years ago reply 1