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I let my 8 year old use Marco Polo to keep in touch with a friend who moved away

I am a type 4 and none of your external markers resonate with me. I have very few of the stereotype tendencies of the 4 and so it made it hard for me to find my type because of this. Fours and every other number can look very different on the outside. I was frustrated by your description of the four being so stereotypical. It's important to focus on the internal world because that is really what the Enneagram assesses.