“When a Haircut Goes Viral: Fear, Communication, and the Emotional Attachment to Black Hair”

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In this episode of Hair What I’m Saying, we unpack the haircut that went viral on TikTok and why it sparked so much emotion. From the fear many Black women have around cutting their hair to the deep emotional attachment we place on our strands, we dive into the psychology behind why haircuts can feel personal.

I break down the importance of consultations and clear communication with your stylist, showing why understanding your hair’s health is more important than just chasing length. We explore how fear and misconceptions about Black hair can turn a routine haircut into a viral moment, and why stylists often face the heat after doing their best.

If you’ve ever hesitated before a haircut, worried about losing length, or struggled with your hair’s health, this episode is for you. We talk about emotional attachment, proper consultations, and how communication between client and stylist can prevent misunderstandings. Plus, we highlight why your hair deserves care, not fear, and how letting go of damaged ends can help your hair truly thrive.

Tune in as we discuss TikTok drama, real stylist experiences, and why fear, emotional attachment, and communicationare at the center of every haircut. Whether you’re a client or a stylist, this episode will help you rethink how you view your hair and your next trim.

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