The Power of Feeling Seen: How Validation Impacts Parenting

In this episode of Where Parents Talk, host Lianne Castelino speaks to Dr. Caroline Fleck—licensed psychologist, Stanford instructor, corporate consultant, and author of Validation: How the Skill Set that Revolutionized Psychology Will Transform Your Relationships, Increase Your Influence, and Change Your Life.

Dr. Fleck breaks down one of psychotherapy’s most impactful yet misunderstood tools: validation. She explains why it’s more than agreement or praise, how it strengthens connection, and why it’s essential for influencing behaviour—especially in tweens, teens, and young adults.

Through real-life examples, neuroscience insights, and practical skills, Dr. Fleck shares:

• What true validation looks and sounds like in families
• Why it boosts emotional regulation, trust, and behavior change
• How parents can shift from problem-solving to connection
• The critical role of empathy and presence in a distracted world
• Steps to repair strained relationships and rebuild communication

This podcast is for parents, guardians, teachers and caregivers to learn proven strategies and trusted tips on raising kids, teens and young adults based on science, evidenced and lived experience.

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Links referenced in this episode:

• whereparentstalk.com