Stop Believing the Lies: How Conditioning Steals Your Purpose

Fatima Bey The MindShifter joins Claudia Noriega Bernstein for a raw, transformative conversation about how conditioning steals our purpose and keeps us living beneath our potential. From confidence issues to cultural programming, Fatima breaks down how we inherit limiting beliefs and why unlearning is just as important as learning. This episode challenges parents, women, and anyone stuck in patterns of self-doubt to recognize the thought seeds they're planting—and the lies they've been believing.

Fatima and Claudia dive into the power of words, the danger of negative self-talk, and how two friends helped Fatima recondition herself by refusing to let her speak badly about herself. They discuss why gifts reveal purpose, how conditioning shapes everything from career choices to self-worth, and what it takes to break free from cultural expectations that tell us we're only valuable in certain ways. If you're ready to stop giving discounts on your value and start living your divine purpose, this conversation will shift your mind.

Chapters

00:00 — Introduction to Mind Shifting and Coaching

02:49 — The Importance of Confidence in Personal Growth

05:57 — Unlearning Conditioning and Finding Purpose

09:03 — Cultural Conditioning and Its Impact on Self-Perception

12:11 — The Connection Between Gifts and Purpose

14:48 — Empowering Women and Building Self-Worth

18:01 — The Role of Positive Reinforcement in Parenting

21:05 — Sowing Seeds of Positivity

23:57 — The Power of Words and Self-Talk

26:54 — Reconditioning Negative Self-Perceptions

29:50 — The Impact of Conditioning on Relationships

33:00 — Conclusion and Call to Action

Takeaways

• Confidence is often the biggest obstacle for clients.
• Unlearning negative conditioning is crucial for personal growth.
• Cultural conditioning affects self-perception across all demographics.
• Gifts and talents are often linked to one's purpose.
• Empowering women is essential for building self-worth.
• Positive reinforcement in parenting shapes children's self-esteem.
• Words have the power to uplift or diminish self-worth.
• Reconditioning negative self-talk is necessary for healing.
• Conditioning impacts how we treat ourselves and others.
• Every interaction can plant seeds of positivity or negativity.

Sound Bites

"Confidence is often the biggest obstacle for clients."

"Gifts and talents are often linked to one's purpose."

"Empowering women is essential for building self-worth."

Featured Host

Claudia Noriega Bernstein — Empowerment Coach & Author

https://claudianoriegabernstein.com/media/

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Original Air Date: Sep 23, 2025

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