102: Exposing Abuse in Churches | Eric Skwarczynski, Host of the Preacher Boys Podcast

Eric Skwarczynski is the creator and host of the Preacher Boys Podcast, a platform dedicated to exposing abuse within religious institutions, particularly in Independent Fundamental Baptist (IFB) churches. With his podcast garnering millions of downloads, Eric has become a leading voice in advocating for survivors of religious trauma and abuse. His work has been featured in major outlets, including HBO's Let Us Prey: A Ministry of Scandals, where he sheds light on systemic issues of abuse and cover-ups within faith-based organizations. Eric’s passion for justice and his unique ability to connect with survivors make him a compelling advocate for change.

On this episode we talk about:

– The widespread issue of abuse in religious institutions and why it often goes unreported or covered up.

– The psychological and societal factors that lead communities to protect abusers instead of victims.

– The personal stories that motivated Eric to start the Preacher Boys Podcast.

– How guilt, shame, and denial contribute to the ongoing cycle of abuse and silence.

– Practical advice for survivors seeking justice and healing.

Top 3 Takeaways

1. Abuse thrives in environments of secrecy, denial, and misplaced loyalty. Breaking the silence is crucial for justice and healing.

2. Institutions often prioritize reputation, power, or financial interests over protecting victims, underscoring the need for systemic reform.

3. Survivors are not alone—there are communities and resources available to support them in their journey toward healing.

Notable Quotes

– "You shouldn’t blame yourself for how good predators are at being bad." – Eric Skwarczynski

– "If you love your church or community, stand up against the bad actors running it." – Eric Skwarczynski

– "Honesty and love are the antidotes to guilt, shame, and denial." – Sam Newell

Connect with Eric Skwarczynski:

– YouTube: youtube.com/preacherboys

– Instagram: @preacherboyspod