Episode 110 - ’Adolescence’ & The Need for Conversations with Boys & Men w/ Ben Hurst

In this episode of the Over the Bridge podcast, the hosts engage in a profound and expansive discussion with Ben Hurst, Director of Facilitation at Beyond Equality and TEDx speaker, on the complex themes surrounding masculinity and the societal constructs that shape male behaviour.

The conversation explores the impact of toxic masculinity, the educational challenges in addressing these issues in schools, and the nuances of everyday sexism. The group also delves into parenthood, particularly the role of fathers in shaping healthy masculinity in their sons, and the importance of critical conversations about gender norms, emotional regulation, and accountability.

Highlighting insights from the Netflix series 'Adolescence' and the necessity for systemic educational reform, the dialogue provides a comprehensive look at how different societal factors contribute to the development of young men and the collective responsibility to foster change.

00:00 Welcome to Over the Bridge Podcast

02:07 Special Guest: Ben Hurst

04:29 The Impact of the Netflix Series 'Adolescents'

06:17 Challenges and Opportunities in Addressing Masculinity

09:37 The Role of Education in Addressing Masculinity

19:44 The Debate on Showing 'Adolescents' in Schools

29:36 Challenges in Addressing Gender Stereotypes

30:32 Building Critical Thinking in Kids

31:08 Complexity of Nuanced Shows for Young Audiences

32:45 Tailoring Conversations for Different Groups

37:14 The Role of Facilitators in Education

46:08 Importance of Reflective Parenting

51:48 Depiction of School Environments in Media

01:03:20 Managing Conflict and Teaching Kids

01:03:52 Lessons Learned from My Dad

01:06:36 Respect and Role Modeling

01:13:31 Everyday Sexism and Privilege

01:23:35 Accountability and Forgiveness

01:30:35 Closing Thoughts and Farewells