WOMEN: Saying the Quiet Thing Out Loud – The Ache We Don’t Name in the Church

Join Lisa Whittle for an honest look at the quiet ache many women in the church experience—an ache that often goes unnamed and unspoken. Lisa shares her own experiences and those of countless women who have felt their gifts, confidence, and leadership misunderstood or suppressed. She addresses the damaging misconception that women’s competence is arrogance, and emphasizes how Scripture celebrates women who are decisive, courageous, and influential. Lisa encourages women to stand firm in their calling, to reject false guilt, and to trust in God's justice and timing. This episode calls the church to recognize and honor the full spectrum of women’s gifts, fostering a culture of respect, safety, and unity. If you’ve ever felt the quiet ache of being marginalized in the church, this episode offers the clarity and encouragement you’ve been longing for.

Listen in to learn more:
(0:42) The quiet ache: what it is and what is isn’t
(3:38) Addressing bitterness, pride, arrogance or jealousy
(4:53) Why women hesitate to speak out on this subject
(9:17) The myth associated with women who are gifted
(10:54) The importance of biblical discernment over assumptions or impressions
(17:33) Biblical examples of courageous, influential women (Deborah & Priscilla)
(19:38) How women learn unspoken rules to diminish their gifts or self-protect
(21:35) The long-term impact on GenX, Millennial, GenZ, and GenAlpha
(25:00) How the church can create an environment where women’s gifts flourish
(26:20) Practical steps for women and leadership to foster trust and respect
(31:26) Trusting God’s justice and timing in our calling and gifts
(35:40) A 30-Day Challenge for gifted women who are feeling marginalized
(36:46) A call for honest, courageous conversations to bring healing and unity in the church

Mentioned in the episode:

From Genesis to Junia: What the Bible Really Says About Women in Leadership: https://a.co/d/0dt6Crm4  

Global Christian Relief: http://link.globalchristianrelief.org/lisa

Body and Soul (Bible Study): https://www.lisawhittle.com/body

God Knows (Book): https://www.lisawhittle.com/godknows

Your God Knows (Bible Study): https://www.lisawhittle.com/yourgodknows

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Website: https://www.lisawhittle.com

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