Is revenge the root of all forms of violence? Oprah sits down with James Kimmel, Jr., a revenge and violence researcher and lecturer in the psychiatry department at the Yale University School of Medicine and the bestselling author of the eye-opening book, The Science of Revenge: Understanding the World’s Deadliest Addiction - and How to Overcome It. From bullying to school and mass shootings to terrorism and even war, James Kimmel Jr’s 20-year research argues that the root cause of all human aggression and violence in the world is the...
Is revenge the root of all forms of violence? Oprah sits down with James Kimmel, Jr., a revenge and violence researcher and lecturer in the psychiatry department at the Yale University School of Medicine and the bestselling author of the eye-opening book, The Science of Revenge: Understanding the World’s Deadliest Addiction - and How to Overcome It. From bullying to school and mass shootings to terrorism and even war, James Kimmel Jr’s 20-year research argues that the root cause of all human aggression and violence in the world is the one universal human emotion: revenge. After being bullied as a teenager, James Kimmel, Jr shares the horrific moment he almost became a mass shooter himself, and why that became the catalyst for his life’s work. James Kimmel Jr shares a research study that could reveal just how prone you might be to seeking revenge. He has also created The Non-Justice System & The Miracle Court App, a 5-step scripted virtual courtroom where a person who has been wronged can play all the roles in a simulated trial - victim, defendant, judge, jury, and warden. Oprah and James Kimmel Jr also hear searing stories from the audience including a woman whose neighbor shot and killed her dog, a woman who got revenge on a boyfriend who cheated on her, a wife and mother whose intense revenge addiction landed her in the hospital. And how a mother, who lost her precious 6-year-old son to gun violence at Sandy Hook Elementary, came to forgive her son’s killer.
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00:00:00 - Welcome James Kimmel, Jr. author of “The Science of Revenge”
00:04:00 - James Kimmel share his story of revenge
00:10:15 - Lawyers sell revenge to the masses
00:13:15 - How revenge is an addiction
00:16:00 - Understanding how revenge leads to crimes
00:17:30 - When revenge becomes addiction
00:27:00 - Woman shares her desire for revenge
00:28:20 - Types of forgiveness
00:37:55 - How can we speed up forgiveness
00:39:30 - How this man resisted getting revenge
00:43:30 - Mother of son killed at Sandy Hook
00:50:50 - Recovering revenge addict
00:57:00 - The motive is revenge
00:59:00 - The power of forgiveness
Additional Resources:
https://www.revengeanonymous.org
The Non-justice System: miraclecourt.com
What's Your Revenge Score? https://www.jameskimmeljr.com/quiz
Connecticut Violence Intervention and Prevention - https://www.ctintervention.org/
Choose Love - https://chooselovemovement.org/
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