Have You Built a Loving Cage

2026-07-22

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Have You Built a Loving Cage July 22, 2026 | Episode 5503 Host: Scott Smith Episode Description Have you ever been so good at your job that you can't get promoted? You're the one person who can do what you do — and that's why you're stuck. I call it the loving cage, and most people never see the bars. Today I'm walking you through its three rings: the slot you fill, the people who love you, and the identity you've built around your competence. Nobody's the villain here. But once you s...

Have You Built a Loving Cage

July 22, 2026 | Episode 5503

Host: Scott Smith

Episode Description

Have you ever been so good at your job that you can't get promoted? You're the one person who can do what you do — and that's why you're stuck.

I call it the loving cage, and most people never see the bars. Today I'm walking you through its three rings: the slot you fill, the people who love you, and the identity you've built around your competence.

Nobody's the villain here. But once you see the cage, you can't unsee it — and that's when you start looking for the key.

Featured Story

I was sitting in the sauna after my workout when I noticed a 29-year-old kid holding a copy of The Talent Code. I asked why he was reading it. "I'd like to educate myself," he said.

So I dug deeper. He's really good at his job — the only guy in his company who can do what he does. Valuable for cash flow. And completely stuck.

I asked if he wanted the C-suite. "Hell yeah," he said. Then I told him something he didn't expect: it's good this is happening at 29. Most people don't feel the bars until 43 or 45 — and by then, the cage is comfortable.

Important Points

The better you do your job, the more trapped you can become in it. Your competence can become the strongest bar in the cage.
Your cage has three rings — the role you fill, the people who love you, and the identity you built around work.
Awareness is the key. Once you name the cage you're standing in, you can't unsee it — and that changes every decision. So start today: name the cage, see the bars, and choose your next move.

Memorable Quotes

"You're so good you can't be promoted. You're so good that you stay where you are. You're so good, you're trapped."
"The person just above you — you are the very reason they're successful. Your competency is what makes them so good."
"This loving cage is truly a cage, but these are bars that you built around yourself. There's no villain here."

Scott's Three-Step Approach

Start by naming your cage. Notice today whether people value you for who you are or just for the slot you fill. Then decide where you want to push next, and take one real step toward it.
Then ask in every conversation which ring you're standing in — the slot, the love, or the identity you've built. Use that answer to decide what you need to change next.
Finally, let your inner renegade out. Push a little, stay kind, and start running toward something new.

Chapters

0:01 - The radio guy in me never quite goes away

1:08 - A sauna conversation with a stuck 29-year-old

2:00 - Why I call myself the nicest renegade you'll meet

3:55 - The curse of competency, straight from my book

5:39 - The loving cage begins with the slot you fill

6:51 - When the people who love you hold you back

9:05 - The inner circle where you love your cage too

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