You Need To Be Single. Here’s Why. | Lewis Howes

2026-02-04

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Lewis gets brutally honest about the relationship patterns that kept him stuck for years and why being single became the most transformative season of his life.He breaks down the difference between chemistry and compatibility, revealing how most people confuse fleeting feelings for genuine alignment.You'll learn why confidence that comes from being chosen disappears the moment you're rejected, and how to build the kind of inner strength that makes you ready for real partnership. Lewis shares the exact exercise he did with Martha...

Lewis gets brutally honest about the relationship patterns that kept him stuck for years and why being single became the most transformative season of his life.

He breaks down the difference between chemistry and compatibility, revealing how most people confuse fleeting feelings for genuine alignment.

You'll learn why confidence that comes from being chosen disappears the moment you're rejected, and how to build the kind of inner strength that makes you ready for real partnership. Lewis shares the exact exercise he did with Martha before committing that created alignment on values, vision, and lifestyle.

This isn't about staying single forever - it's about using this season to heal your wounds, raise your standards, and become the person who's ready for the relationship you actually want.

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In this episode you will:

Transform the wounds you've been carrying into past relationships before they bleed on someone new
Build confidence from within instead of depending on someone choosing you to feel worthy
Discover who you are without distractions so you stop using relationships to avoid yourself
Raise your standards through alignment rather than settling out of fear of being alone
Prepare yourself for healthy lasting love by doing the inner work now that creates conscious partnership later

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