Trust me, you are not going to want to miss this episode’s honest and vulnerable conversation with Stephen McWhirter, author of the memoir Radically Restored: How Knowing Jesus Heals Our Brokenness. I have really been looking forward to sharing this episode because his story is raw, unsettling at times, and deeply hopeful, and it challenged me in ways that I couldn't have expected. Listen as Stephen opens up about growing up in a home where faith was loudly preached in public but painfully contradicted in private. We talk about w...
Trust me, you are not going to want to miss this episode’s honest and vulnerable conversation with Stephen McWhirter, author of the memoir Radically Restored: How Knowing Jesus Heals Our Brokenness. I have really been looking forward to sharing this episode because his story is raw, unsettling at times, and deeply hopeful, and it challenged me in ways that I couldn't have expected. Listen as Stephen opens up about growing up in a home where faith was loudly preached in public but painfully contradicted in private. We talk about what it does to a child when the person who represents God also causes pain and how that kind of hypocrisy can lead to anger, rebellion, and addiction for years, and Stephen openly shares his long road into substance abuse, the surprising moment when everything began to change, and how his encounter with Jesus didn’t happen in a church pew but rather alone, surrounded by darkness and drugs where grace met him anyway.
Stephen walks us through forgiveness in a unique way, and we talk about abuse, safety, boundaries, and the very real cost of forgiving someone who caused deep wounds, especially when that person is a parent. His story of forgiving his father (not once but over a lifetime) is one of the best parts of the conversation. We also spend some time talking directly to parents, friends, and loved ones who feel helpless watching someone they care about struggle, with Stephen offering hope for those carrying quiet shame, hidden addictions, or unanswered prayers, reminding us that repentance brings things into the light.
If you are wrestling with forgiveness, addiction, trust, or the question of whether God is actually good, then this episode is absolutely for you, and if you’re the one praying for someone else and wondering if it matters, I truly hope that this conversation gives you real hope that restoration is possible, sometimes even in ways that we could never expect or plan for ourselves. Be sure to grab a copy of his book as well!
In This Episode
[0:35] - This episode is an interview with Stephen McWhirter, author of Radically Restored: How Knowing Jesus Heals Our Brokenness!
[1:39] - Stephen opens up about how his father’s public faith hid private abuse, fueling rebellion and addiction.
[4:18] - Alone with drugs, Stephen realized that salvation required belief, not effort.
[6:57] - Stephen believes that God met him outside church and used his story uniquely.
[10:04] - For Stephen, obediently forgiving his father was unimaginably difficult.
[12:48] - At his father’s deathbed, forgiving him aloud released Stephen and reshaped his understanding of grace.
[15:37] - Stephen argues that forgiveness involves tearing up debt and opening the door to healing.
[17:15] - Stephen asserts that a parent’s words matter most, but peers can powerfully redirect someone who is struggling.
[19:52] - Hear how Stephen longed for honest apologies and repentance because hiding only deepens damage and prevents healing.
[23:12] - Stephen believes that repentance brings hidden sin into light.
[26:13] - Stephen shares how his mother's faith taught him that prayer is active trust, especially when loving someone feels helpless.
[29:50] - Hear how knowing God’s character transformed Stephen's controlling prayers into trust that His will is genuinely good.
[32:16] - Be sure to grab a copy of Stephen's book!
Links & Resources
Crystal Paine
The Crystal Paine Show - 329: Why I Am Not Setting Goals in 2026
Books
Radically Restored: How Knowing Jesus Heals Our Brokenness by Stephen McWhirter
The Case for Christ: A Journalist’s Personal Investigation of the Evidence for Jesus by Lee Strobel
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