Ep 154: Why Drinking Didn’t Fix the Pain—and What Finally Did

2025-12-18

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There was a time in my life when I didn’t think I deserved better than what alcohol was doing to me.I knew — intellectually — that God loved me. But I didn’t love myself. And somewhere along the way, I started believing the lie that this mess was mine to clean up alone.In this episode, I’m speaking to you the way I speak to a woman sitting across from me in coaching — honestly, gently, and without pressure. We talk about the real battle beneath drinking: the voices in your head, the shame that fuels the urge to numb, and how the e...

There was a time in my life when I didn’t think I deserved better than what alcohol was doing to me.

I knew — intellectually — that God loved me.
But I didn’t love myself.
And somewhere along the way, I started believing the lie that this mess was mine to clean up alone.

In this episode, I’m speaking to you the way I speak to a woman sitting across from me in coaching — honestly, gently, and without pressure. We talk about the real battle beneath drinking: the voices in your head, the shame that fuels the urge to numb, and how the enemy works through lies when we’re at our weakest.

You’ll hear parts of my own story of breaking free from alcohol, how I learned to discern God’s voice from the voice of accusation, and why alcohol often shows up as a “cheap substitute” right when healing is about to happen.

We talk about:

Why drinking often has more to do with shame than willpower
How the enemy whispers lies about your identity when you’re most vulnerable
The difference between conviction and condemnation
Why alcohol promises relief but ultimately deepens the pain
What it actually means to “take every thought captive”
How learning to reject lies and claim truth changes everything

This is a conversation about healing, identity, and freedom — not perfection.

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