323. Building Your Parenting Village Without Parents Nearby

2026-02-02

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Parenting in a village isn’t anything new. It’s a necessity for many families, especially when extended family isn’t close by. In this episode, we talk candidly about what it really looks like to build and rely on a village of friends, neighbors, and other families. If you’ve never done this before, know that it can feel intimidating at first. Trusting others with your kids, your schedule, and your needs takes time and practice but it gets easier, and it’s worth it.Key Topics CoveredWhat it means to build a parenting village when family isn’t nearby.Why relying on others often starts out of necessit...

Parenting in a village isn’t anything new. It’s a necessity for many families, especially when extended family isn’t close by. In this episode, we talk candidly about what it really looks like to build and rely on a village of friends, neighbors, and other families. If you’ve never done this before, know that it can feel intimidating at first. Trusting others with your kids, your schedule, and your needs takes time and practice but it gets easier, and it’s worth it.

Key Topics Covered

What it means to build a parenting village when family isn’t nearby.
Why relying on others often starts out of necessity.
How to ask for help clearly, specifically, and in a way that feels fair.
Making drop-off birthday parties work for your family.
When and how to incorporate paid support into your village.
The impact of unexpected support and paying it forward.
How building a village models healthy relationships and help-seeking for kids.
Letting go of what you thought your village would look like and getting creative.
Abby’s go-to coaching prompt for asking for help.