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We’re doing a Deep Dive into our best episodes around a single topic. Find the Spotify playlist for this “Deep Dive” here.
This group of episodes is about parenting kids who don’t fit the mold. This week, we’re revisiting our episode on meeting our kids where they are.
It's hard not to be a little nervous when your kid is the only one still crying at preschool drop-off. Or the only one still spelling everything wrong in third grade. Sometimes it turns out to be a late bloomer situation, nothing to worry about. Sometimes it's an early indicator of something your kid might struggle with for a long time.
How do we move beyond our own stress about what our kids are and aren't doing like the rest of the bunch? How do we adjust our demands to meet what our kids are actually capable of? How do we set our parental expectations so that our kids will be motivated to try harder without feeling bad about themselves?
It's a tricky balance, best summed up by parent coach Sarah Wayland:
"If we never had expectations that were beyond our children’s current abilities, we wouldn’t teach them anything.... But I’m at my absolute worst as a parent when my expectations are far beyond my kids’ abilities."
Here are links to research and other writing on the topic that we discuss in this episode:
Listen to "When Typical Parenting Advice Just Doesn't Fit"
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DEEP DIVE: When You Feel Like a Failure as a Parent
Fresh Take: Sarah Gristwood on What We Can Learn From Women's Diaries
When Our Kids Are Bad at Making Friends
DEEP DIVE: Bad Mom Moments (with guest Arianna Bradford)
Fresh Take: Naomi Cahn and June Carbone on Building a Just Economy
How Old Is Old Enough?
DEEP DIVE: JoAnn Crohn of "No Guilt Mom"
Fresh Take: Cameron Normand of "Stepfamily Solutions"
Do We Need to Lower Our Standards?
DEEP DIVE: Dr. Pooja Lakshmin on Burnout and Mom Guilt
Fresh Take: Danielle Bayard Jackson on "Fighting for our Friendships"
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DEEP DIVE: Ditching Mom Guilt
Fresh Take: Dr. Alok Kanojia on Parenting a Healthy Gamer
How To Deal With Picky Eaters
DEEP DIVE: Parenting as a Team
Fresh Take: Chelsey Goodan on How Parents Underestimate Their Teenage Girls
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