In this episode of The Art of Imperfect Adulting, Amy Stone speaks with Susan Hyatt about the realities and myths of diet culture, beauty standards, and the rise of "menopause culture." Broadcasting from Indiana in the Midwest, Susan shares her journey as a life coach and author, unveiling the motivations behind her anti-diet philosophy and the process of publishing her book, "Bear." Together, Amy and Susan candidly explore the evolving influence of social media, the challenge of visibility for women, and how aging and menopause are newly commodified—and what it means to choose self-support instead of self-policing.
About Susan Hyatt: Susan Hyatt is a Master Certified Life Coach, Bestselling Author, and TEDx Speaker. She’s on a mission to ignite 'Big Yes Energy' in women everywhere. From boosting your bank account to supercharging your self-confidence, from elevating your energy levels to amplifying your joy, Susan is the go-to expert for women who want more.
With 18 years of coaching experience under her belt, Susan has guided thousands of women through their personal revolutions. She's a crusader against diet culture and a vocal advocate for closing gaps – in wages, confidence, and yes, even orgasms.
She is also the creator of BARE - a groundbreaking process that’s inspired women all over the world to stop shrinking their bodies and start expanding their lives.
Susan's impactful work has graced national TV, leading podcasts, and top magazines including O: The Oprah Magazine, Cosmopolitan, Seventeen, Woman’s World, and Call Her Daddy. Her dedication to women's empowerment and entrepreneurship also earned her a spot as a finalist for the prestigious Athena Award.
When she's not hyping up her clients, leading epic retreats, or making a scene, Susan can be found weightlifting, marathon training, globetrotting, or cozying up in her hygge corner. She’s also not shy about advocating for equality at home, regularly reminding her husband about the importance of sharing the "invisible workload," so she can continue to earn big and play big.
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Quote from the Episode: "I'm not gonna shut up because I have big boobs and blonde hair and blue eyes. Like, that's ridiculous. And also, like, oh, so the only people who get to speak out about this are the most oppressed, or is this the oppression Olympics? ...I still have experienced these things over here. And there are a lot of women who benefit from me speaking up and telling my story." — Susan Hyatt
Timestamps: [00:00:04] Welcome to Susan Hyatt; Midwest roots and prepping for a winter release [00:01:05] Discussing comfort with cold and extreme weather [00:01:17] The decision to write a book about diet and beauty culture [00:02:06] How coaching women sparked the Bear philosophy [00:03:29] Susan’s publishing journey: self-publishing vs. traditional, agent search, and rejections [00:08:11] The motivation behind pushing through barriers—helping women be free of diet culture rules [00:10:53] Definitions of diet culture, beauty culture, menno culture [00:12:18] The courage to be publicly visible and tell your story [00:13:54] Navigating online backlash—privilege, representation, and “oppression Olympics” [00:19:09] Aging and new forms of diet culture targeting menopause and longevity [00:21:33] Why influencer solutions often mirror old food rules, and the importance of discernment [00:25:51] Responsibility in sharing wellness information and empowering body intuition [00:27:50] Functional strength, quality of life, and rethinking longevity goals [00:32:10] Personal experiences with perimenopause and advocating for health support [00:34:07] Growing up with Southern “nice girl” messaging and the evolution of openness [00:36:55] How to filter wellness information and cope with changing recommendations [00:39:07] Trying different approaches and honoring individual guidance [00:40:59] Consistency over competition in health and fitness routines [00:41:58] Instant feedback culture online and its impact on sharing stories [00:43:04] Finding community online and offline; building supportive spaces [00:47:09] Susan’s current programs, retreats, and resources for women [00:48:41] Rapid-fire favorites—book recommendations and travel dreams [00:51:19] Closing gratitude and anticipation for the episode airing
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