Ep.123 Grace Over Perfection in Marriage, with Brad and Marilyn Rhoads.

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In this encouraging episode, Brad and Marilyn Rhoads share how God redeemed their struggling marriage and led them to create the Grace Marriage ministry. Through honest stories and biblical wisdom, they remind us that marriage isn’t about perfection but about grace.

This conversation offers hope for busy moms navigating conflict, emotional exhaustion, and unmet expectations, revealing how God uses marriage to shape our hearts and reflect the love of Christ.

Takeaways

• Marriage is not meant to complete us, but to deepen our dependence on God and strengthen emotional connection in Christian marriage.
• Grace in marriage is essential for unity, forgiveness, and long-term intimacy between husband and wife.
• Everyday life—stress, parenting, and exhaustion—requires extending grace daily to navigate conflict and communication challenges.
• Constant criticism damages marriage relationships, while choosing to overlook offenses creates space for love and healing.
• Spiritual growth and discipleship are foundational for a healthy, thriving Christian marriage.
• Living from a place of victory in Christ helps couples overcome shame, insecurity, and feelings of inadequacy.
• Intentional connection, including regular date nights, is vital for keeping marriage strong through busy seasons of life.
• Grace allows room for growth, understanding, and patience in daily interactions between spouses.
• Unrealistic expectations often lead to frustration in marriage, while acceptance and empathy foster peace and stability.
• Prayer, faith, and intentional spiritual rhythms strengthen marriages and invite God into everyday relationship challenges.

Chapters

00:00 The Journey to Grace Marriage

02:58 Understanding Grace in Marriage

06:07 The Role of Grace in Daily Life

08:58 Navigating Criticism and Expectations

11:43 Spiritual Climate and Marriage

14:56 Living from a Place of Victory

17:54 Lightning Round: Quick Tips for Couples

Resources

Grace Marriage Website

The Grace Marriage Book

MomQ Curriculum

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