EP 615: 7 Things Secure Partners Never Do (And Why This Changes Everything About Your Relationships)

2025-12-31

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As we close out the year and step into a fresh chapter, I wanted to create an episode that feels grounding, clarifying, and empowering. This episode came from a place of deep reflection, on this show, on relationships, and on what it actually looks like to build secure, healthy love. Sometimes the most powerful clarity doesn’t come from what we should tolerate or work harder at, but from getting crystal clear on what simply does not belong in secure partnership. In this episode, I walk you through the non-negotiables that define secure relationships, so you c...

As we close out the year and step into a fresh chapter, I wanted to create an episode that feels grounding, clarifying, and empowering. This episode came from a place of deep reflection, on this show, on relationships, and on what it actually looks like to build secure, healthy love. Sometimes the most powerful clarity doesn’t come from what we should tolerate or work harder at, but from getting crystal clear on what simply does not belong in secure partnership. In this episode, I walk you through the non-negotiables that define secure relationships, so you can move into this next season with higher standards, deeper self-trust, and a stronger sense of who you are becoming.

Inside the episode:

Why secure partners lead with integrity, emotional regulation, and respect and what it reveals about attachment and nervous system safety
The subtle but damaging dynamics that don’t exist in secure relationships (and how to stop normalizing them)
How clarity around “what’s a no” helps you build stronger boundaries, healthier standards, and a securely attached identity

If this episode resonated with you and you know you’re ready to stop repeating old relationship patterns, this is your moment. Applications for the Empowered.Secure.Loved.® Relationship Program are closing for the year, and this is the last chance to join in its current format.

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