What if the thing you’ve been trying hide is actually the reason people remember you?Rachel Lee is a brand stylist and designer who built her business by doing the opposite of what she thought “serious” creatives were supposed to do. From growing up as an imaginative art kid to hiding parts of herself in traditional design roles, Rachel spent years trying to fit in before realizing that belonging to herself mattered more. In this conversation, she shares what happened when she quit a stable job, stopped performing professionalism, and let her real perso...
What if the thing you’ve been trying hide is actually the reason people remember you?
Rachel Lee is a brand stylist and designer who built her business by doing the opposite of what she thought “serious” creatives were supposed to do. From growing up as an imaginative art kid to hiding parts of herself in traditional design roles, Rachel spent years trying to fit in before realizing that belonging to herself mattered more.
In this conversation, she shares what happened when she quit a stable job, stopped performing professionalism, and let her real personality lead, cat ears and all.
From Art Kid to Self-TrustRachel’s story starts the way many creative stories do: curiosity, imagination, and a slow drift away from those instincts in order to be accepted. The farther she moved from herself, the harder it became to feel fulfilled.
“I spent so long thinking that fitting in was the safer option, but over time I realized it was costing me way more than it was giving me.”
That realization didn’t arrive all at once. It came through frustration, burnout, and the quiet feeling that something was off.
Actionable Insight: Pay attention to where your work feels heavier than it should.
Bonus: Name one part of yourself you’ve been muting to feel more legitimate.
Choosing Alignment Over SafetyRachel left a steady job because she refused to keep living out of alignment. She talks openly about fear, family expectations, and learning business without a roadmap.
“Walking away from something stable was terrifying, but staying would’ve meant ignoring the part of me that knew this wasn’t it.”
Actionable Insight: You don’t need certainty to move forward, just clarity on what you’re done carrying.
Bonus: Identify one small step toward work that feels more like you.
Personal Branding That Feels HumanFor Rachel, personal branding stopped being about aesthetics the moment she stopped pretending. Her brand worked when she did.
“Personal branding isn’t about looking polished or put together. It’s about letting people see who you actually are when you’re not performing.”
The cat ears weren’t a tactic. They were a signal. And people remembered her because she felt real.
Actionable Insight: Make your brand feel like you.
Bonus: Ask yourself where you’re trying to sound like someone else.
Attracting the Right People by Being ClearWhen Rachel showed up as herself, the right clients leaned in and the wrong ones drifted away.
“The moment I stopped trying to appeal to everyone was the moment the right people started finding me.”
That clarity made everything simpler.
Actionable Insight: You’re allowed to be specific, even if it means being less universal.
Bonus: Remove one message from your site or bio that feels watered down.
Staying Human in a Noisy WorldAs Rachel moves into content creation, her focus stays the same. Connection over polish. Practice over perfection.
“With everything becoming faster and more automated, the thing people are craving most is something that feels human.”
Let yourself evolve without abandoning who you are.
Actionable Insight: Growth comes from repetition, not reinvention.
Bonus: Show up once this week without overthinking the outcome.
Key Takeaways- Fitting in costs more than it gives.
- Your quirks are signals.
- Personal branding starts with self-trust.
- Art and business don’t have to compete.
- Standing out begins with letting yourself be seen.
Closing ReflectionRachel didn't want to fit in. She wanted to be memorable by telling the truth.
Remember, the people you’re meant to reach are looking for you, not a generic version of you.
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