Between Cultures: One Transcultural Adoptive Family’s Story

2025-12-17

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Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.What is it like to be the only biological child in a large transracial adoptive family? Our guest, Elaine Duncan, shares her story of how transcultural adoption impacted her identity and resilience. She is a writer, speaker, and strategist whose work bridges storytelling, healing, and social change. She has a passion for improving outcomes for underserved young people and is currently working on a memoir of her life journey.In this episode, we...

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.

What is it like to be the only biological child in a large transracial adoptive family? Our guest, Elaine Duncan, shares her story of how transcultural adoption impacted her identity and resilience. She is a writer, speaker, and strategist whose work bridges storytelling, healing, and social change. She has a passion for improving outcomes for underserved young people and is currently working on a memoir of her life journey.

In this episode, we discuss:

What did your home look like growing up, and what was it like for you to be the only biological child in a transracial/transcultural adoptive family?
Families who adopt across race or culture often wonder how to bring all of those differences together under one roof.
How did your family handle conversations about race, culture, and identity? Were these things openly acknowledged, celebrated, or avoided?
How did your parents support (or struggle to support) you in building your own sense of identity — not just as their child, but as an individual?
Did you ever feel overlooked or lost in the mix? How could parents avoid that happening for their kids?
What were some of the biggest challenges you carried from growing up in this transracial/transcultural adoptive family?
- How have those challenges shaped your adult life, relationships, or even your current work?
What are the gifts or strengths you gained from growing up in such a diverse family?
Are there ways your unique upbringing has given you perspective, resilience, or empathy that you now value?

Additional Resources:

Intergenerational Trauma (podcast)
The Impact of Fostering & Adoption on Kids Already in the Family (free on-demand course)
Raising a Transracial or Multicultural Child (resource page)

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