010. Be a Person that Goes Beyond Inviting People... and Welcomes Them.

In this episode we talk about the difference between inviting someone and truly welcoming them.

NOTES:

- Inviting is easy, welcoming takes more effort.

- Effort + Intentionality is what sets inviting and welcoming apart.

- Welcoming isn't the same thing as having people come over.

- Don't be a lazy host or make guests do the work.

- Be purposeful about who is coming into your space.

- Check in with every person.

- Think about your space and how to make that space work for you.

- Avoid a Set Seating Situation Stagnancy LOL

- Scan the room and see who needs to be welcomed in.

- As a host and human, it's important to see people.

- Seek out those that might have a harder time fitting in.

- Physically welcome people.

- As an invitee, how can you make yourself feel welcome?

- Find a thing you do well and lead with that —dad jokes, questions, compliments—and then follow up.

TAKEAWAYS:

1. Being purposeful. As the host, it's YOUR job.

2. Space matters.

3. See + seek.

4. Ask questions to get people to open up.

QUICK SHOT QUESTION:

What is your favorite fair/carnival food?

And because this sparked a debate... would you say fair or carnival?

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