Have you ever heard of non monogamous people having “comet” partners? Today we’ll discuss what that means and how it’s different from long distance relationships.
Jazz Goldman and I talk about what a comet partner relationship might look like between the two of us. We talk about sustainability, and make a distinction between being community-oriented non monogamous folks, and being individual-oriented non monogamous folks.
One way to think of community-oriented non monogamy is how focused we are on our greater collection of lovers and our lovers’ lovers - that is to say on our polycules. One way to think of individual-oriented non-monogamy is more like solo polyamorous folks, though not all solo polyamorous folks are individual-oriented. I mean to say if we take a radically personally autonomous stance - that we are each responsible only for ourselves, we would be embodying more of an individual-oriented philosophy rather than a community-minded one.
Sustainability of relationships and thinking about how they fit in the context of one’s polycule is an important assessment for me, even if I do have strong needs for autonomy and independence. I think the information is good to have for everyone, even if they are quite individual-oriented in how they practice their consensual non monogamy.
And now, the conversation with Jazz Goldman about Long Distance Lovers on Intimate Interactions.
--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/intimate-interactions/messageWhen Is Flirting Creepy? (Andre Lazarus)
How I got into this kind of work (Roy Biancalana)
Blissipline, a Community Culture of Effort and Consistency (Mahima)
Psilocybin and the Power to Change (Susannah Rose Stokes)
Intimacy Exercises without Penetration (Andre Lazarus)
Never Have I Ever VII (Juniper, Robin)
Peace of the Moment (Mahima)
Sex Surrogates and Therapists (Andre Lazarus)
Twice Have I Ever II (Melody Anne, Sara)
From Marine Corps to Sacred Sexuality (Susannah Rose Stokes)
Connecting to Yourself (Mahima)
Never Have I Ever VI (Juniper, Robin)
Masculinity, Expectations, and Nonmonogamy (Andre Lazarus)
Semper Fi (Susannah Rose Stokes)
Would You Rather (Melody Anne, Sara)
A Woman Softens into Connection (Winnie Chan Wang)
Evidence-Based Attachment Injury Healing (Dr. Hamilton)
Never Have I Ever IIII (Melody Anne, Sara)
Herpes Outbreak Prevention (Alexandra Harbushka)
Build Your Compersion Muscles (Dr. Hamilton)
Create your
podcast in
minutes
It is Free