Learning Differently: A Mother’s Journey to Understanding and Real Support

A small on-air shuffle turns into a masterclass in advocacy as we sit down with Nikki, a mom who refused to let stigma define her son’s path. From the first red flags in kindergarten to a game-changing IEP, she lays out the exact steps she took to move from confusion and frustration to clarity and progress. You’ll hear how early signs like trouble with phonics and mounting stress pointed to an auditory processing disorder, and how a supportive teacher, a pediatrician, and thorough evaluations created a clear plan that actually worked.

We get specific about what an Individualized Education Program does—and doesn’t—do. Nikki explains how to push back on retention when it doesn’t address root causes, what accommodations helped most (extended time, read-alouds, fidgets, targeted instruction), and why an IEP is a set of rights you can enforce, not a favor you beg for. Carmen adds her own experience with learning differences and college accommodations, from extended test time to note takers, emphasizing that support isn’t a weakness; it’s the bridge to real performance. Together, we tackle the hard parts—bias from adults, labels like “lazy” or “spoiled,” and the myth that special education means less. The result is a practical, compassionate guide for families and educators searching for answers.

By the end, you’ll have a checklist of next steps: how to start the conversation with a teacher, what to ask a pediatrician, how to navigate evaluations, and where to find help on campus—even without a formal IEP. Most of all, you’ll hear how strategies learned in school become lifelong tools. Nikki’s son carried those skills into college, construction work, and the army, proving that when we tailor education to how a child learns, we unlock confidence and achievement that lasts.

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Music By Geovane Bruno, Moments, 3481
Editing by Team A-J
Host, Carmen Lezeth


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