His & Hers Podcast - Reigniting Courtship: Intentional Ways To Love Your Spouse **Blast From The Past**

Our team thought it was a great idea to start rewinding previous (but timely) episodes of our show during the times that Mista Yu is away from the microphone. All of these beautiful Blasts from the Past were previously broadcast, but we are sharing them with you at a time when you might need them most. Hope you enjoy the review!

Tired of feeling “busy” yet strangely disconnected from the person you love most? We dig into the difference between casual dating and purposeful courtship and share how re-courtship inside marriage can restore warmth, clarity, and trust without gimmicks or grand gestures.

We open up about our first date and why accountability shaped every choice we made early on. From there, we get practical: weekly no-work boundaries, dinner-at-the-table conversations, shared reading, and turning errands into easy dates. We talk about the seasons where the calendar owned us—kids’ activities, work, ministry—and how planning like teammates, meal-prepping for hard weeks, and praying together kept us steady. You’ll hear why assumptions drain intimacy, how to audit your commitments with an urgent vs important filter, and what to do when you “don’t have time” but can’t afford to keep drifting.

Faith undergirds everything here. We name how the enemy sneaks in through pride, busyness, and unspoken expectations, and we offer tools to push back: honest check-ins, recalibrating values as you grow, delaying wants for shared needs, and looking for the root beneath recurring friction. Whether you’re newly married or approaching three decades together, the message is the same—be intentional, stay curious, and fiercely defend the covenant you vowed to protect.

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Our team will choose random (but timely) episodes from our previous three seasons (which are our most popular ever!) to share with our listeners during the slower parts of a long podcast season. We think you will enjoy them! Thanks for listening!

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