350: The Money Beliefs That Are Costing You

Money is one of the biggest sources of conflict in relationships, but it's rarely about the money itself. This week, we unpack why couples get stuck in the same financial arguments, how our childhood experiences and money beliefs shape the way we spend and save, and what it really takes to get on the same page with your partner. We also share practical ways to have healthier money conversations, better understand each other's financial habits, and build a stronger partnership instead of keeping score.

Key Topics Covered:

• The four common money personalities and how they influence financial decisions
• Why regular money check-ins help couples stay connected and avoid resentment
• How financial anxiety can show up as overspending, oversaving, or avoiding money altogether
• The impact of lifestyle creep, comparison, and keeping score in a relationship
• Four simple questions to uncover your own money beliefs and start better conversations with your partner

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