She chose life. He was adopted across the country by wonderful parents. And now he details his journey to finally find his birth mother. Today he shares his thoughts, struggles and blessings - to find he is exactly where God planned him to be! Jenny's guest is her friend Phil Arlinghaus. He is the Operations Manager for four radio stations, an Executive Producer, and he's been a Radio Show & Podcast Host. The journey of finding a birth mom can be emotionally complicated and he talks about the ups and downs he's experienced. We have heard some children who were adopted will internalize their own story and worth with the words spoken over them or shared with others. It can affect how they view their birth family, themselves and adoption as a whole.