Cathy and Todd discussed the viral “man or bear” debate, addressing why many women felt compelled to pick “bear” and why some men felt hurt or angry. They discussed the importance of listening and empathy when it comes to other people’s experiences and how being defensive might be our initial reaction, but we can choose compassion and understanding. They also discussed why opting out of something we don’t want to do makes room for the things we do want to do. Todd and Cathy are hosting a live discussion about the “man or bear” debate on Monday, May 20th at 7pm CT through the MenLiving platform – all genders are welcome, see below for link to join.
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(00:00:52) Sign up for Cathy’s Substack
(00:01:42) Join Team Zen
(00:06:11) Cathy opting out **
(00:22:46) Man or bear
(00:35:06) Get curious
(00:38:52) Power over **
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