While not every woman fakes orgasm, and most don’t do it routinely, it’s the rare woman who hasn’t done it at least once. Early research indicated that roughly 55% of women have faked orgasm at least once in their lifetime. This general pattern has since been confirmed in more recent studies, some reporting rates as high as 74%. In this episode I am joined by certified sex therapist Rachel Zar, LMFT. We discuss:
WHY women fake orgasm
What factors predict the likelihood of faking orgasm
If it’s ever OK to fake orgasm
What a woman should say to her partner instead of faking
How often, and why, men fake orgasm
While not every woman fakes orgasm, and most don’t do it routinely, it’s the rare woman who hasn’t done it at least once. Early research indicated that roughly 55% of women have faked orgasm at least once in their lifetime. This general pattern has since been confirmed in more recent studies, some reporting rates as high as 74%. In this episode I am joined by certified sex therapist Rachel Zar, LMFT.
We discuss:
- WHY women fake orgasm
- What factors predict the likelihood of faking orgasm
- If it’s ever OK to fake orgasm
- What a woman should say to her partner instead of faking
- How often, and why, men fake orgasm
Rachel Zar LMFT, CST, is an AASECT-certified sex therapist with a master’s degree in Marital and Family Therapy from Northwestern University. She is currently in private practice in Chicago and is completing a PhD in Clinical Sexology.
RachelZarTherapy.com
Other relevant episodes:
Episode 15: Post Menopause Orgasm- Everybody Come!
Episode 47 Orgasm Equality with Dr. Laurie Mintz
Episode 70- Is the O Shot a Good Idea?
For more information:
Slip Sliding Away: Turning Back the Clock on Your Vagina-A gynecologist’s guide to eliminating post-menopause dryness and pain
Lauren Streicher, MD is a clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University’s Feinberg School of Medicine, and the founding medical director of the Northwestern Medicine Center for Sexual Medicine and Menopause. She is a certified menopause practitioner of the North American Menopause Society.
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