When Work Stress Hijacks Your Home: Stop Ruminating and Get Your Patience Back with Guy Winch

Work stress doesn’t stay neatly at work.

It follows you home. It shows up in the tone of your voice, the snap of your patience, and that feeling of being “on edge” even when nothing is technically wrong. If you’ve ever walked through the door already exhausted, replaying work conversations in your head while your kids need you now, this episode is for you.

In this conversation, I sit down with psychologist Guy Winch, author of Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life, to talk about why work stress hits moms so hard—and what actually helps. We go beyond “just relax” and get into the science of emotional health, burnout, and how stress quietly spills into parenting and family dynamics.

This episode is especially for moms who are high achievers, caregivers, and the emotional glue holding everything together—at work and at home.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why ruminating about work is actually unpaid overtime—and how it drains your patience at home
• How burnout moves in both directions, from work to parenting and back again
• The science behind why your body stays in “battle mode” long after the workday ends
• Simple, realistic transition rituals that help your brain shift from work mode to home mode
• Why taking time for yourself isn’t selfish—it’s protective for your emotional health
• How a parent’s stress affects the entire household, even when you think you’re hiding it
• What to do when you’re so burnt out that taking action feels impossible

Why this conversation matters

So many moms blame themselves for snapping, zoning out, or feeling disconnected at home—when the real issue is chronic stress and emotional overload. Guy explains why this isn’t a personal failure, but a nervous system problem that needs support, structure, and intention.

You’ll walk away with language to understand what’s happening inside you—and practical ways to stop work stress from hijacking your home life.

About today’s guest

Guy Winch is a psychologist and leading voice in emotional health. He brings science-backed tools to everyday struggles like burnout, rumination, and emotional exhaustion. His book, Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life, explores how modern work culture affects mental health—and what we can realistically do about it.

Resources Mentioned

Mind Over Grind: How to Break Free When Work Hijacks Your Life

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