Stop Diagnosing Your Spouse: What Helps More Than Labels | Ep. #96

2025-12-24

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00:00 A question comes in00:05 “I think my wife needs therapy, but it hurts her when I bring it up”00:24 A common trend: spouses diagnosing each other00:48 When you’re unhappy or angry, labels feel easier01:04 Real issues exist, but I’m not a doctor01:19 The better move: work on yourself01:50 See her goodness and her perspective02:10 Care more, listen more, help more02:25 Feel with her instead of getting angry02:46 When men change, “the diagnosis disappears”03:10 Hashem can heal, and doctors...

00:00 A question comes in

00:05 “I think my wife needs therapy, but it hurts her when I bring it up”

00:24 A common trend: spouses diagnosing each other

00:48 When you’re unhappy or angry, labels feel easier

01:04 Real issues exist, but I’m not a doctor

01:19 The better move: work on yourself

01:50 See her goodness and her perspective

02:10 Care more, listen more, help more

02:25 Feel with her instead of getting angry

02:46 When men change, “the diagnosis disappears”

03:10 Hashem can heal, and doctors are for diagnosis and treatment

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