As soon as I turned 65, something shifted in the exam room… and not for the better. In this episode, I’m sharing my personal experience with ageism in health care - how the tone of my medical appointments changed, why the attention to my symptoms dropped, and why so many of us suddenly get a pat on the shoulder instead of real care.This isn’t just about Medicare or paperwork.It’s about what happens when the medical system quietly decides we’re “too old” for deeper investigation.I break down:The subtle (and no...
As soon as I turned 65, something shifted in the exam room… and not for the better.
In this episode, I’m sharing my personal experience with ageism in health care - how the tone of my medical appointments changed, why the attention to my symptoms dropped, and why so many of us suddenly get a pat on the shoulder instead of real care.
This isn’t just about Medicare or paperwork.
It’s about what happens when the medical system quietly decides we’re “too old” for deeper investigation.
I break down:
- The subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways ageism shows up in doctor’s offices
- Why the system often stops ordering tests after 65
- The stereotypes and assumptions that leave older adults underdiagnosed and overlooked
- How we can push back, advocate for ourselves, and get the care we deserve
- The exact phrases that shift conversations with clinicians
- And why refusing to internalize medical ageism is an act of self-respect
And because I never want you walking into a doctor’s appointment unprepared, I created a free one-page guide you can take to your next annual physical:
👉 “What to Ask For at Your Annual Physical After 65”
This checklist covers the physical, mental-health, and cognitive screenings every adult over 65 should be receiving, but often aren’t.
Grab it here and use it as your personal advocacy tool.
Growing older doesn’t mean fading into the background of the medical system.
We deserve curiosity, attention, and care at every age — and we’re not afraid to ask for it.
✨ Tap here to tune into EP 24 to hear Tami Barber's story about firing her cancer doctor - I know you'll love meeting this former Dallas Cowboys Cheerleader and Love Boat star.
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