Life coaching can be shrouded in confusion.
In this episode of The Gentle Rebel Podcast, I chat with Megan Malone, delving into the joys and challenges of coaching. Together, we dissect why some view it sceptically and explore avenues for life coaches to reverse the negative trends and misconceptions.
Megan is an International Coach Federation (ICF) certified coach and has a Master’s in Organisational Development. She sheds clear light on the nature of coaching and what to expect from working with a professionally accredited life coach.
The Perception of Life CoachingCoaching is plagued by numerous misconceptions, fuelling doubts and suspicions regarding its validity. Particularly in the wake of controversial instances like Escaping Twin Flames, The Dream (Season Three), and The Conspirituality Podcast (186: Coaches Coaching Coaches), where self-proclaimed coaches have been exposed for questionable and, at times, harmful practices.
It’s imperative to address these misconceptions because each of us should be in a position to make informed assessments about what we’re being sold in the name of coaching. For this we must foster greater awareness and comprehension of ethical practices.
Navigating the life coaching industry can be confusing, primarily due to its lack of regulation. Anyone can call themselves a coach without adhering to any particular standards. This ambiguity has sparked discussions calling for industry regulation to delineate more precise professional and ethical practices.
Nevertheless, organisations like the ICF provide clear guidance to affiliated practitioners. They mandate adherence to specific standards, ethics, and competencies. But for it to be truly effective, this type of voluntary self-regulation also requires a public awareness and understanding of what coaching is (and isn’t).
It is crucial to recognise how coaching differs from other helping interventions and understand its uniquely valuable purpose.
The Difference Between Coaching, Therapy, Mentoring, and Consulting CoachingCoaching a pathway to attaining specific goals or a desired future state. A coach acts as a partner, guiding clients to make decisions for themselves and designing an intentional course for personal or professional growth.
TherapyTherapy and counselling focus on aiding clients in mental health recovery, processing past trauma, and healing emotional distress. It delves into exploring and addressing past pain hindering present and future well-being.
MentoringSeeking guidance and career advice from an expert in the field. Having traversed a similar path, a mentor imparts wisdom and support, focusing on skill and knowledge acquisition.
ConsultingConsulting addresses specific problems or challenges and offering expert suggestions and recommendations for implementation. Consultants provide expert advice within a particular field or issue, often creating an action plan for their client.
Why is Life Coaching Unregulated?Coaching operates under the premise that clients are inherently whole and capable of making sound life decisions. The coach facilitates self-awareness through questioning and active listening, aiding clients in identifying obstacles, envisioning future desires, and formulating strategies for progress.
While regulated professions often require proven credentials, coaching’s focus on client responsibility and self-directed growth means it’s unlikely to become regulated. However, the rise of untrained coaches (and a wild west of coach training options) blurs the lines, with some assuming roles beyond their expertise, such as advising or diagnosing based solely on personal experience and interests.
ICF-affiliated training programs emphasise a coach’s role in guiding clients to find their own path rather than offering direct advice. This approach fosters motivation, reward, and confidence in clients’ decisions, challenging conventional notions of decision-making predicated on external validation.
In essence, coaching is an agreement entered into voluntarily by those who want to reach a desired future state. The partnership provides scaffolding for building momentum towards change. It’s not focused on fixing, curing, or mending anything.
In our discussion, Megan and I delve into various aspects of coaching, including:
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Over to YouDid anything resonate with you in our conversation? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below or via social media.
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