The invisible labor no one talks about? It might be the thing killing your desire.In this episode, Dr. Jenn Kennedy dives into the mental load so many people carry in relationships—the nonstop planning, anticipating, organizing, remembering, and emotional caretaking that quietly drains energy, connection, and eroticism. From managing schedules and groceries to carrying the emotional responsibility for the entire household, this invisible labor can leave people feeling exhausted, resentful, and disconnected f...
The invisible labor no one talks about? It might be the thing killing your desire.
In this episode, Dr. Jenn Kennedy dives into the mental load so many people carry in relationships—the nonstop planning, anticipating, organizing, remembering, and emotional caretaking that quietly drains energy, connection, and eroticism. From managing schedules and groceries to carrying the emotional responsibility for the entire household, this invisible labor can leave people feeling exhausted, resentful, and disconnected from pleasure.
Dr. Jenn explores:
- Why mental overload impacts libido and desire
- The hidden resentment that builds in partnerships
- How “manager mode” blocks playful, erotic energy
- Why simply saying “help me more” often backfires
- The connection between perfectionism, control, and burnout
- How to shift from project manager back into partner
- Ways couples can create more spaciousness, collaboration, and intimacy
This episode is especially for anyone who feels like they’re carrying the relationship logistics, family planning, emotional labor, or invisible responsibilities—and wondering why desire feels so far away lately.
Because your libido may not be broken. It may just be overloaded.
✨ Plus: Dr. Jenn shares details about her self-paced course designed to help women better understand their desire, pleasure, and erotic blueprint.
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Connect with Dr. Jenn:
Instagram: @drjennkennedy
Website: Pleasure Project
Website: Riviera Therapy
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