Are you protecting yourself, or sabotaging your potential?
In this episode, Kevin and Alan challenge the habit of playing not to lose and explain why waiting, hoping, and “being patient” often mask fear. Built on their real-world experience, coaching data, and long-term pattern recognition, they unpack the psychology behind rejection, avoidance, and misplaced consistency. This is a focused conversation on offense, ownership, and why progress accelerates when action is intentional and aligned with the goal.
No hype. No motivation talk. Just clear thinking, performance principles, and hard-earned perspective. Listen carefully. Then choose whether you keep defending where you are, or earn what’s next.
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Show notes:
(1:07) Why playing defense quietly kills momentum
(3:01) Core fears that drive playing not to lose
(7:10) Using numbers to neutralize rejection
(13:44) Why consistency alone stops working
(15:02) Skill stacking as the real differentiator
(16:51) Becoming subservient to the goal
(19:50) Outro
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