Is your family stressed, anxious, and fixated on getting your teen into a "dream school"? What if that's the wrong goal entirely?
Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with Jeff Selingo, bestselling author and higher education expert, to reframe the process of searching for the “right” college. After more than 25 years of studying what actually helps students thrive in college, Jeff has a finding that may surprise you: it’s not where your teen goes to college that matters most—it’s how they engage on...
Is your family stressed, anxious, and fixated on getting your teen into a "dream school"? What if that's the wrong goal entirely?
Dr. Lisa Damour and Reena Ninan revisit their conversation with Jeff Selingo, bestselling author and higher education expert, to reframe the process of searching for the “right” college. After more than 25 years of studying what actually helps students thrive in college, Jeff has a finding that may surprise you: it’s not where your teen goes to college that matters most—it’s how they engage once they’re there.
💡 YOU'LL LEARN:
- Why attending the most prestigious colleges doesn’t guarantee better outcomes
- Why belonging matters more than brand name — and what to actually look for when evaluating campus culture, mentorship, and fit
- How to have honest, early conversations about college costs, and why financial fit deserves just as much attention as academic fit
- Why the college search should be about your individual teen, not community expectations or rankings (and how to tune out the noise)
- What students can do at any college to maximize their success — and why how they show up matters more than where they enroll
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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.
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